My mom said some hurtful things this morning

[PudgieDaFrog]

All because I was late. She said that I was a burden, said that she wished the mental hospital would keep me, she called me a bitch, she yelled at me to sit down, she started complaining because I was crying, and she told me to fix my face when I started loudly sobbing. After that I think I need to have a few drinks. I don't trust her anymore. I'm just gonna drink a few beers and then go to fucking bed because I'm over it.

[SecretBoxFox]

Don’t drink to cope with your problems, that’s not a path you want to go down. Save yourself a lot more pain in the future by stopping now.

I come from a family of alcoholics, trust me on this

[poopypeter]

Are you almost done the school year

[BUM-DRILLER]

Your mom OHHHH

[FUNKbrs]

At 6/20/22 05:53 PM, DrunkGecko wrote:

At 6/20/22 03:38 PM, PudgieDaFrog wrote:All because I was late. She said that I was a burden, said that she wished the mental hospital would keep me, she called me a bitch, she yelled at me to sit down, she started complaining because I was crying, and she told me to fix my face when I started loudly sobbing. After that I think I need to have a few drinks. I don't trust her anymore. I'm just gonna drink a few beers and then go to fucking bed because I'm over it.

im gonna be the one to say it
you need to stop doing stupid shit like drinking
it turns everything into everyone else's problem and they wont want to help you
there are medicines that can and WILL work for these things
i dont wanna hear the "meds just fucked me up even more" excuse from anyone
because i guarantee you didnt give more than 4 different kinds a chance
nobody can help you if you dont help yourself
if you dont take the initiative to be like "im not gonna live like this"
then you will have no one to blame but yourself in the end
it doesnt matter what mental illness you have
it doesnt matter what physical disability you have
only you can take the first step

Wholesome and based.

Alcohol is literally the worst drug for making you feel better, and I should know, I used to brew super strong wine.

Why did I stop? Alcohol sucks, that's why.

@DrunkGecko is being a really good friend to you right now.

He knows what he's talking about.

If you really want to be happy, drinking a solvent that acts as a depressant isn't going to get the job done.

Also, how are you getting access to alcohol? You're what, 7 years too young for that?

Regardless of whether or not your mom's a bitch, trying to do shit to defy her that's against your own best interests isn't going to work out in your favor.

Again, Geck REALLY knows what he's talking about. If anybody is gonna tell you the truth about this, it's him.

[ChiralAnomaly]

Even calm people become frustrated on bay days. The important thing you should realise is that your mother still loves and cares about you.

[PudgieDaFrog]

At 6/20/22 05:38 PM, poopypeter wrote:Are you almost done the school year

yeah I have finished school already. She was mad because I woke up late for the partial program at the mental hospital.

[PudgieDaFrog]

At 6/20/22 05:53 PM, DrunkGecko wrote:

At 6/20/22 03:38 PM, PudgieDaFrog wrote:All because I was late. She said that I was a burden, said that she wished the mental hospital would keep me, she called me a bitch, she yelled at me to sit down, she started complaining because I was crying, and she told me to fix my face when I started loudly sobbing. After that I think I need to have a few drinks. I don't trust her anymore. I'm just gonna drink a few beers and then go to fucking bed because I'm over it.

im gonna be the one to say it
you need to stop doing stupid shit like drinking
it turns everything into everyone else's problem and they wont want to help you
there are medicines that can and WILL work for these things
i dont wanna hear the "meds just fucked me up even more" excuse from anyone
because i guarantee you didnt give more than 4 different kinds a chance
nobody can help you if you dont help yourself
if you dont take the initiative to be like "im not gonna live like this"
then you will have no one to blame but yourself in the end
it doesnt matter what mental illness you have
it doesnt matter what physical disability you have
only you can take the first step

Yeah, yeah, you're right. The most drinking does to me when it comes to side effects is that I just kinda feel fuzzy, sad, mad, and I almost fall over 20 times in the span of only 2 minutes. I mean sure it makes me feel good for a short period of time but mixing it with my current medication, Zoloft, I don't think is a good idea.

[PudgieDaFrog]

At 6/21/22 04:38 AM, Seth wrote:

At 6/21/22 03:18 AM, ChrisOrksen wrote:

At 6/21/22 03:10 AM, Seth wrote:

You're missing the point about the medication fffuuuuuuuuuuuck

Dude, do you know even know what the difference between a chemical imbalances and something that’s psychological is

Yes, actually, I do.
And if someone is taking Zoloft, I have to question what they've already been through. I can't say that I suspect abuse, but I will say that it's a possibility...

I have been abused before. A daycare worker hit me when I was little. My mom's post-partum depression made it hard for me and her in the beginning and she was at work often so I had to kind of learn to do things myself. Unless you mean alcohol abuse on my end. Which, is also, yes.

[justdio09]

don't listen to that in my experience it's all bs because they're angry not actually what they really think they kept you and fed you for years and it's very unlikely they would really meant that

[FUNKbrs]

At 6/21/22 04:38 AM, Seth wrote:Yes, actually, I do.
And if someone is taking Zoloft, I have to question what they've already been through. I can't say that I suspect abuse, but I will say that it's a possibility...

Man, I don't want to be publically anti-meds....

But privately?

I won't take that shit. I got too many friends that got into dope at an early age because they got medicated and didn't live past 30. The first time I saw xanax it was on the street and dude was trying to trade it for weed.

There's a lot of that, where people will take their prescribed medication and trade them for street drugs that... frankly... work better.

Weed kicks ass and really gets the job done with minimal side effects.

LSD and mushrooms will FIX you. Like they will literally dissolve the boundaries in the brain that are causing your problems temporarily. You gotta be careful with them because they can break you, too. Not everyone is ready to unlock the closet and let the skeletons out.

However.

If you're suffering as bad as you say you are, and they offer you meds, and the meds seem to work, roll with it. But don't drink on your meds. The cross effects are terrible.

[crtstatic]

Drinking will only make everything worse. You should stop while you're ahead, before you become used to it and need it to function.

And you're also...what? 13? 14? Wayyy too young to be starting a drinking problem.

[PudgieDaFrog]

At 6/21/22 02:57 PM, DrunkGecko wrote:

At 6/21/22 02:08 AM, Zeiwolf wrote:

At 6/20/22 05:53 PM, DrunkGecko wrote:

At 6/20/22 03:38 PM, PudgieDaFrog wrote:All because I was late. She said that I was a burden, said that she wished the mental hospital would keep me, she called me a bitch, she yelled at me to sit down, she started complaining because I was crying, and she told me to fix my face when I started loudly sobbing. After that I think I need to have a few drinks. I don't trust her anymore. I'm just gonna drink a few beers and then go to fucking bed because I'm over it.

im gonna be the one to say it
you need to stop doing stupid shit like drinking
it turns everything into everyone else's problem and they wont want to help you
there are medicines that can and WILL work for these things
i dont wanna hear the "meds just fucked me up even more" excuse from anyone
because i guarantee you didnt give more than 4 different kinds a chance
nobody can help you if you dont help yourself
if you dont take the initiative to be like "im not gonna live like this"
then you will have no one to blame but yourself in the end
it doesnt matter what mental illness you have
it doesnt matter what physical disability you have
only you can take the first step

ok I'm going to have to intervene here, first off fuck what @DrunkGecko said obviously he don't know what he's talking about with the meds shit. Drinking won't help your problems. they will only add to the mess. Neither is popping a pill going to solve all your problems. We are not living in some type of fantasy here. There are real serious consequences if you take medication unnecessarily. try to go to therapy and discuss it with your therapist and they can direct you to a better solution. If there are trust issues try online anonymous therapy or a different therapist. Nobody should be treated like that. You need to speak up and address your situation assertively without being self destructive.

Also you need to try to take charge of your life and do the right thing. Get better grades, get a job if you're old enough and do everything that you need to do to get your own place where you're in charge and you can GTFO of your situation. Nobody is going to hold your hand and give you everything. You need to take it for yourself. And as for her calling you a Bitch....tell her to stop projecting what she is on to other people and to stop being bitter about her thighs.

Sorry for trying to help
Next time I'll just let the kid suffer

I made my goal for the day to not drink. Or at least to keep it to the minimum of 1 or 2 because 2 is better than fucking 5. It's a start, you know?

[PudgieDaFrog]

At 6/21/22 03:28 PM, Zeiwolf wrote:

At 6/21/22 03:04 PM, PudgieDaFrog wrote:

At 6/21/22 02:57 PM, DrunkGecko wrote:

At 6/21/22 02:08 AM, Zeiwolf wrote:

At 6/20/22 05:53 PM, DrunkGecko wrote:

At 6/20/22 03:38 PM, PudgieDaFrog wrote:All because I was late. She said that I was a burden, said that she wished the mental hospital would keep me, she called me a bitch, she yelled at me to sit down, she started complaining because I was crying, and she told me to fix my face when I started loudly sobbing. After that I think I need to have a few drinks. I don't trust her anymore. I'm just gonna drink a few beers and then go to fucking bed because I'm over it.

im gonna be the one to say it
you need to stop doing stupid shit like drinking
it turns everything into everyone else's problem and they wont want to help you
there are medicines that can and WILL work for these things
i dont wanna hear the "meds just fucked me up even more" excuse from anyone
because i guarantee you didnt give more than 4 different kinds a chance
nobody can help you if you dont help yourself
if you dont take the initiative to be like "im not gonna live like this"
then you will have no one to blame but yourself in the end
it doesnt matter what mental illness you have
it doesnt matter what physical disability you have
only you can take the first step

ok I'm going to have to intervene here, first off fuck what @DrunkGecko said obviously he don't know what he's talking about with the meds shit. Drinking won't help your problems. they will only add to the mess. Neither is popping a pill going to solve all your problems. We are not living in some type of fantasy here. There are real serious consequences if you take medication unnecessarily. try to go to therapy and discuss it with your therapist and they can direct you to a better solution. If there are trust issues try online anonymous therapy or a different therapist. Nobody should be treated like that. You need to speak up and address your situation assertively without being self destructive.

Also you need to try to take charge of your life and do the right thing. Get better grades, get a job if you're old enough and do everything that you need to do to get your own place where you're in charge and you can GTFO of your situation. Nobody is going to hold your hand and give you everything. You need to take it for yourself. And as for her calling you a Bitch....tell her to stop projecting what she is on to other people and to stop being bitter about her thighs.

Sorry for trying to help
Next time I'll just let the kid suffer

I made my goal for the day to not drink. Or at least to keep it to the minimum of 1 or 2 because 2 is better than fucking 5. It's a start, you know?

That's good Its a start. you want to want to try to get that down to 0. You want to try to focus on keeping busy doing productive stuff when the urges come and ignore the bullshit nonsense that she tries to put you down with.

me and my mom made up for all that stuff. She apologized and then we hugged and got some Wawa afterwards.

[DamnedByFate]

At 6/21/22 01:35 AM, Seth wrote:

At 6/20/22 05:53 PM, DrunkGecko wrote:

At 6/20/22 03:38 PM, PudgieDaFrog wrote:All because I was late. She said that I was a burden, said that she wished the mental hospital would keep me, she called me a bitch, she yelled at me to sit down, she started complaining because I was crying, and she told me to fix my face when I started loudly sobbing. After that I think I need to have a few drinks. I don't trust her anymore. I'm just gonna drink a few beers and then go to fucking bed because I'm over it.

im gonna be the one to say it
you need to stop doing stupid shit like drinking
it turns everything into everyone else's problem and they wont want to help you

I agree with all of this. Perfect.

there are medicines that can and WILL work for these things
i dont wanna hear the "meds just fucked me up even more" excuse from anyone
because i guarantee you didnt give more than 4 different kinds a chance

I'm gonna stop you right there. Medication ruined my life. Maybe they work for some people, but I cannot sit idly by and let someone vouch for them when most of the time things like depression are more situational than they are a chemical imbalance. In fact, medication for something in this kind of scenario can permanently alter someone's brain chemistry, leaving them permanently mentally fucked, as it was in my case. Imagine being told constantly that you're a failure and then be expected to act like everything's all good. And when you don't, YoU nEeD MeDiCaTiOn!!!!1 No, just no. Fuck that. That's what was done to me, and I'm not supporting such statements.

Beer is not the answer.

Beer is the question. The answer is yes.

[ChiralAnomaly]

Since OP has already been prescribed with medicines. We can safely assume that there are professionals (not the armchair psychiatrists you see on a random Internet forum) who think medications can help.

[z0i]

Don’t start drinking from your youth, my dad drank since he was like 18 and now he’s unable too, should be obvious why

[DamnWei]

get a job and move out.

[PudgieDaFrog]

At 6/22/22 07:22 AM, DamnWei wrote:get a job and move out.

Dude, I can't move out I'm 13. Also, I love my mom and we made up for it. I do plan on getting a job though.

[DamnWei]

At 6/22/22 07:25 AM, PudgieDaFrog wrote:

At 6/22/22 07:22 AM, DamnWei wrote:get a job and move out.

Dude, I can't move out I'm 13. Also, I love my mom and we made up for it. I do plan on getting a job though.

you could move to a country with child labour... you COULD!

[JizzyJazz]

you are the textbook prelude of a future drug addict. better stop coping by drinking, all's im sayin.

[DamnedByFate]

At 6/22/22 01:22 AM, Seth wrote:Also, @DrunkGecko, I don't knock you for trying to help, but mental health, even among professionals, is not well understood, even in this day and age.

"Mental health" is just a fancy term for "conformity" anyway.

[StickmanMarkinson]

To Wei, I don't know why I can't reply to you. But Pudgie can't go anywhere in this fricked up economy (and country), this isn't the 40's or the 60's that you would instantly get a job with a decent wage anymore. To Pudgie, I'm sorry to read on what you're going through. I still have some issues with my mother since I first went to elementary school. I too have plans on moving out, but I don't know on where to go (I'm in Canada btw).

[Mistman7]

At 6/20/22 05:53 PM, DrunkGecko wrote:

At 6/20/22 03:38 PM, PudgieDaFrog wrote:All because I was late. She said that I was a burden, said that she wished the mental hospital would keep me, she called me a bitch, she yelled at me to sit down, she started complaining because I was crying, and she told me to fix my face when I started loudly sobbing. After that I think I need to have a few drinks. I don't trust her anymore. I'm just gonna drink a few beers and then go to fucking bed because I'm over it.

im gonna be the one to say it
you need to stop doing stupid shit like drinking
it turns everything into everyone else's problem and they wont want to help you
there are medicines that can and WILL work for these things
i dont wanna hear the "meds just fucked me up even more" excuse from anyone
because i guarantee you didnt give more than 4 different kinds a chance
nobody can help you if you dont help yourself
if you dont take the initiative to be like "im not gonna live like this"
then you will have no one to blame but yourself in the end
it doesnt matter what mental illness you have
it doesnt matter what physical disability you have
only you can take the first step

Drunkgecko is right. Nobody can help you until you get a grip and help yourself. Complaining on newgrounds won't help.

I'm sorry your life is like this, but bitching about it does nothing for you. There's no other way for me to put it.

[Mistman7]

At 6/21/22 04:39 PM, DamnedByFate wrote:

At 6/21/22 01:35 AM, Seth wrote:

At 6/20/22 05:53 PM, DrunkGecko wrote:

At 6/20/22 03:38 PM, PudgieDaFrog wrote:All because I was late. She said that I was a burden, said that she wished the mental hospital would keep me, she called me a bitch, she yelled at me to sit down, she started complaining because I was crying, and she told me to fix my face when I started loudly sobbing. After that I think I need to have a few drinks. I don't trust her anymore. I'm just gonna drink a few beers and then go to fucking bed because I'm over it.

im gonna be the one to say it
you need to stop doing stupid shit like drinking
it turns everything into everyone else's problem and they wont want to help you

I agree with all of this. Perfect.

there are medicines that can and WILL work for these things
i dont wanna hear the "meds just fucked me up even more" excuse from anyone
because i guarantee you didnt give more than 4 different kinds a chance

I'm gonna stop you right there. Medication ruined my life. Maybe they work for some people, but I cannot sit idly by and let someone vouch for them when most of the time things like depression are more situational than they are a chemical imbalance. In fact, medication for something in this kind of scenario can permanently alter someone's brain chemistry, leaving them permanently mentally fucked, as it was in my case. Imagine being told constantly that you're a failure and then be expected to act like everything's all good. And when you don't, YoU nEeD MeDiCaTiOn!!!!1 No, just no. Fuck that. That's what was done to me, and I'm not supporting such statements.

Beer is not the answer.

Beer is the question. The answer is yes.

Not the fucking time. This kid is 15 and is literally starting a drinking habit, of five beers a day. This isn't just a bad habit, this could LITERALLY END HER LIFE.

She could fucking DIE from this.

[DamnWei]

At 6/22/22 12:10 PM, Mistman7 wrote:

At 6/20/22 05:53 PM, DrunkGecko wrote:

At 6/20/22 03:38 PM, PudgieDaFrog wrote:All because I was late. She said that I was a burden, said that she wished the mental hospital would keep me, she called me a bitch, she yelled at me to sit down, she started complaining because I was crying, and she told me to fix my face when I started loudly sobbing. After that I think I need to have a few drinks. I don't trust her anymore. I'm just gonna drink a few beers and then go to fucking bed because I'm over it.

im gonna be the one to say it
you need to stop doing stupid shit like drinking
it turns everything into everyone else's problem and they wont want to help you
there are medicines that can and WILL work for these things
i dont wanna hear the "meds just fucked me up even more" excuse from anyone
because i guarantee you didnt give more than 4 different kinds a chance
nobody can help you if you dont help yourself
if you dont take the initiative to be like "im not gonna live like this"
then you will have no one to blame but yourself in the end
it doesnt matter what mental illness you have
it doesnt matter what physical disability you have
only you can take the first step

Drunkgecko is right. Nobody can help you until you get a grip and help yourself. Complaining on newgrounds won't help.

I'm sorry your life is like this, but bitching about it does nothing for you. There's no other way for me to put it.

no. like what a few people already said, the drugs for mental illnesses are fucked up and drunkgecko is not a biologist doctor. otherwise non-suicidal people have killed themselves after taking stuff like Zoloft. that or got an addiction which might be worse than hard alcohol.

[DamnWei]

At 6/22/22 12:16 PM, Mistman7 wrote:

At 6/21/22 04:39 PM, DamnedByFate wrote:

At 6/21/22 01:35 AM, Seth wrote:

At 6/20/22 05:53 PM, DrunkGecko wrote:

At 6/20/22 03:38 PM, PudgieDaFrog wrote:All because I was late. She said that I was a burden, said that she wished the mental hospital would keep me, she called me a bitch, she yelled at me to sit down, she started complaining because I was crying, and she told me to fix my face when I started loudly sobbing. After that I think I need to have a few drinks. I don't trust her anymore. I'm just gonna drink a few beers and then go to fucking bed because I'm over it.

im gonna be the one to say it
you need to stop doing stupid shit like drinking
it turns everything into everyone else's problem and they wont want to help you

I agree with all of this. Perfect.

there are medicines that can and WILL work for these things
i dont wanna hear the "meds just fucked me up even more" excuse from anyone
because i guarantee you didnt give more than 4 different kinds a chance

I'm gonna stop you right there. Medication ruined my life. Maybe they work for some people, but I cannot sit idly by and let someone vouch for them when most of the time things like depression are more situational than they are a chemical imbalance. In fact, medication for something in this kind of scenario can permanently alter someone's brain chemistry, leaving them permanently mentally fucked, as it was in my case. Imagine being told constantly that you're a failure and then be expected to act like everything's all good. And when you don't, YoU nEeD MeDiCaTiOn!!!!1 No, just no. Fuck that. That's what was done to me, and I'm not supporting such statements.

Beer is not the answer.

Beer is the question. The answer is yes.

Not the fucking time. This kid is 15 and is literally starting a drinking habit, of five beers a day. This isn't just a bad habit, this could LITERALLY END HER LIFE.

She could fucking DIE from this.

beer probably won't kill her. unless she take them with the meds. i think you're grossly overestimating the alcohol content in beer.

it would probably make her fat. or fatter.

[ChiralAnomaly]

At 6/22/22 12:24 PM, DamnWei wrote:

At 6/22/22 12:10 PM, Mistman7 wrote:

At 6/20/22 05:53 PM, DrunkGecko wrote:

At 6/20/22 03:38 PM, PudgieDaFrog wrote:All because I was late. She said that I was a burden, said that she wished the mental hospital would keep me, she called me a bitch, she yelled at me to sit down, she started complaining because I was crying, and she told me to fix my face when I started loudly sobbing. After that I think I need to have a few drinks. I don't trust her anymore. I'm just gonna drink a few beers and then go to fucking bed because I'm over it.

im gonna be the one to say it
you need to stop doing stupid shit like drinking
it turns everything into everyone else's problem and they wont want to help you
there are medicines that can and WILL work for these things
i dont wanna hear the "meds just fucked me up even more" excuse from anyone
because i guarantee you didnt give more than 4 different kinds a chance
nobody can help you if you dont help yourself
if you dont take the initiative to be like "im not gonna live like this"
then you will have no one to blame but yourself in the end
it doesnt matter what mental illness you have
it doesnt matter what physical disability you have
only you can take the first step

Drunkgecko is right. Nobody can help you until you get a grip and help yourself. Complaining on newgrounds won't help.

I'm sorry your life is like this, but bitching about it does nothing for you. There's no other way for me to put it.

no. like what a few people already said, the drugs for mental illnesses are fucked up and drunkgecko is not a biologist doctor. otherwise non-suicidal people have killed themselves after taking stuff like Zoloft. that or got an addiction which might be worse than hard alcohol.

People should get a life and stop acting like know-it-all assholes. Especially the few users in this post.

Newgrounds is obviously not a place to ask for advices about these problems. Turn to the real professionals and let them sort it out.

It is hypocrisy to claim that on one hand that DrunkGecko should not pretend to be a doctor and on the other hand claiming, with no good evidence, that drugs do not work.

This thread should be locked so that it won’t be flooded with nonsense, especially the ones that discredit the field of psychiatry.

[DamnedByFate]

At 6/22/22 12:16 PM, Mistman7 wrote:Not the fucking time. This kid is 15 and is literally starting a drinking habit, of five beers a day.

I was drinking way more at a way earlier age.

This isn't just a bad habit, this could LITERALLY END HER LIFE.

She could fucking DIE from this.

All men must die.

[PudgieDaFrog]

At 6/22/22 12:26 PM, DamnWei wrote:

At 6/22/22 12:16 PM, Mistman7 wrote:

At 6/21/22 04:39 PM, DamnedByFate wrote:

At 6/21/22 01:35 AM, Seth wrote:

At 6/20/22 05:53 PM, DrunkGecko wrote:

At 6/20/22 03:38 PM, PudgieDaFrog wrote:All because I was late. She said that I was a burden, said that she wished the mental hospital would keep me, she called me a bitch, she yelled at me to sit down, she started complaining because I was crying, and she told me to fix my face when I started loudly sobbing. After that I think I need to have a few drinks. I don't trust her anymore. I'm just gonna drink a few beers and then go to fucking bed because I'm over it.

im gonna be the one to say it
you need to stop doing stupid shit like drinking
it turns everything into everyone else's problem and they wont want to help you

I agree with all of this. Perfect.

there are medicines that can and WILL work for these things
i dont wanna hear the "meds just fucked me up even more" excuse from anyone
because i guarantee you didnt give more than 4 different kinds a chance

I'm gonna stop you right there. Medication ruined my life. Maybe they work for some people, but I cannot sit idly by and let someone vouch for them when most of the time things like depression are more situational than they are a chemical imbalance. In fact, medication for something in this kind of scenario can permanently alter someone's brain chemistry, leaving them permanently mentally fucked, as it was in my case. Imagine being told constantly that you're a failure and then be expected to act like everything's all good. And when you don't, YoU nEeD MeDiCaTiOn!!!!1 No, just no. Fuck that. That's what was done to me, and I'm not supporting such statements.

Beer is not the answer.

Beer is the question. The answer is yes.

Not the fucking time. This kid is 15 and is literally starting a drinking habit, of five beers a day. This isn't just a bad habit, this could LITERALLY END HER LIFE.

She could fucking DIE from this.

beer probably won't kill her. unless she take them with the meds. i think you're grossly overestimating the alcohol content in beer.

it would probably make her fat. or fatter.

The hell did you just say about my weight?