At 5/6/22 06:45 PM, TecNoir wrote:
So what is the morality of aborting a fetus? Are you killing a child or are you not? Let's say, hypothetically, that it is killing a child. So you are essentially saying that the murder of a child is moral IF that child is a product of rape? That doesn't seem moral to me, the child would be innocent.
This is where the problem lies. People want to assume that it has to be a moral choice to abort something but more often than not, it becomes a matter of survival. There is no morality in situations where you have to do things that are unthinkable to live.
Even if it's in a situation where a woman's life is not at stake because of the pregnancy in of itself, it's that same morality people preach to keep a child a live where a woman would get killed whether she does have an abortion or not. Whether or not a woman is raped is irrelevant because that's not the only reason why a fetus is aborted if you read the article that EdyKei had posted, especially in cultures where women are both punished for rape or abortion one way or the other.
So here are a couple of things I question about the kind of morality that people preach:
1) Is it right to force a woman to keep a child just because she is forced to have one, when we live in a culture where it's shunned to rape a woman?
2) If we were to live in a culture where both rape and abortion are immoral and even illegal, but women are punished severely for one or the other, is it not contradictory to kill a woman for the sake of a child that is not born?
3) Even if the child is born and the mother is dead, how would it profit humanity if the child is unable to reproduce until legal age or when the child could have a life threatening aliment of their own?
4) If the life of a mother is threatened for the sake of the child when no foul play is involved and both her and the child are left to die, is it morally right to allow for the death of one or both?
I feel like there is a contradiction in the "pro-life" argument because it seems very much the opposite of what it's supposed to be about. You're basically devaluing the exact thing that gives life to a child to begin with and in nature if lets say, a bird hatches a chick that happens to have a health issue, it will toss it out of the nest and let it die because the survival of herself and her other chicks are more important than the one that is suffering. This isn't to say that it's impossible for it to survive, but the chances of it may be unlikely that it will in nature.
Yes, you can make the argument that we humans are not the same as other animals, but we are still animals nonetheless in the sense that we're mammals with intelligence. Shouldn't it be more moral to base our morality based on wiser decisions for survival of the human race as a whole? I'm not saying that a child should die but in a case where the mother matters more than the child, then the mother should be kept alive. Not the child.
It sucks but at the end of the day it's very counter-intuitive to allow a child to be born whether it's a bastard child or not. It's a step backwards for the states to even think of abandoning the decision made by Roe Vs. Wade in a practical sense if we were thinking about it like that because it's forcing our culture to act like a third world country when it shouldn't have to be.
That's why this is not a decision that men should be making on the behalf of women. Or a decision that another woman should make for a woman. Only the mother and the mother of the said child alone should make that decision.
I'm not for it, but I'm not against it, it's a heavy question with consequences that suck. But I sure as hell know that I have a penis and I am not someone with breasts or a vagina. So I can not have a say in the matter of whether or not a prospective mother should abort or not.
At 5/6/22 08:24 PM, EdyKel wrote:
I think there are many poor arguments over abortion, by both sides. I'm not really a supporter of abortions. I find it uncomfortable to defend, and even to talk about - and that may be because of my conservative upbringing. But I think there are a lot of reasons why woman may seek an abortion, which can't easily be encapsulated into one generalized reason that some arguments try to frame it as, and will remain a morally grey area because of it's complexity. I think it's a deeply personnel, and private, matter by a woman, which isn't helped by those virtual signaling over it for political points.
Abortions have been around for thousands of years, done by many cultures around the world, for a lot of the same reasons you hear about. Two millenniums back, abortions was widely practiced by the Romans, and ancient Greeks, but was treated mostly apolitically. Even in the America's, abortions were performed by the native American people, and even by colonial and post colonial Americans - though, it varied in legality for them.
What concerns me the most about what is going on right now is that this decision by Christian activists in the US Supreme Court is more about blurring the lines between church and state to take away privacy under the pretext of religious morality, when it doesn't solve the problem of why woman seek abortions in the first place, while turning them to use more dangerous underground methods to have them. And this same reasoning could be used to undermine other past cases on religious and partisan grounds. And this is at a time when abortions are going down because of more contraceptive use. It's all about religious control, using politics to do it.
And it doesn't help that the same party that is so anti-abortion will attack welfare, where 70% who use it are single mothers, while in more recent times they are often going after school lunches to save on spending. It's hard to reconcile how outright hypocritical all of this is.
I can not blame you on this and perhaps this is because of a similar upbringing on my end. But you have a point that this has been a thing historically for some time. I think this is where religious morality does more harm than it does good because from a certain point of view, it's blinds humans to the basic elements of survival in that sense.
There's also a good other deal of problems where I have issues with religious culture and the morality it poses. Yet people identifying as Christian preach about the forgiveness of sins all the time and then persecute others for them and that's where I have strong feelings on the matter. In the end I agree where this is hypocritical from the Anti-Abortion side.